Saturday, 6 December 2014

The sensitive side of Alexander the Great

Alexander the Great was a warrior, he was a barbarian, murderer and coroner of the world, only at the age of 33.

The king of ancient Macedonia was brave and fueled with power.
He was a hard drinker and highly sexual male, with a need of power.
We see so many examples of people in today's world, we like to think about them as confident and high hierarchy humans, but we never look from the eyes of an awakened person.

It is not our thing to look outside of ourselves, out of the box, behind of our ego...

Alexander had a lovely mother who was very protective over him and she wanted that he accomplishes a wonderful things. To bad for young Alex, his mother died , nothing remained but the realization that the Alexander had to become  a son of god, and he will must respect his family which is superior over the human beings.

The question we ask ourselves is: What gave him such a strength and determination in such a cruel times?

The research from 2014 about Cognitive Bias :
''Whither Cognitive Bias Modification Research? Commentary on the
Special Section Articles
Colin MacLeod
University of Western Australia
Ernst H. W. Koster
Ghent University
Elaine Fox
Essex University''

Clearly shows that Alexander was not a predator, but he just had type one serotonin regulation between neuronal synapses. Opposite to type two which is regulated in such way that people care more about themselves.

People like Alexander have good intentions most of the time, but because of hyper stimulation of the right hemisphere of their brain, they react slightly more illogical than normal subjects.

Alcohol and drugs plays a big role in highly intelligent and emotional people. Let's not misunderstand these with mental disorders.
Rather than that - lets focus on more thorough research, and let's keep the state of love and compassion towards all beings.


Sunday, 9 November 2014

This Society Is Making Me Bloody Sick

In this culture it is not easy for those who like to think , feel , and share compassion for others.
The resulting depression for me as a male, means loneliness, people not understanding me, people expecting for me to take responsibility for all bad that happens in live. Depends in what king of social interactive place you live, sometimes you have no control over what is happening to you.
Especially for sensitive and intelligent people, it is very hard to express their emotions and deal with problems in society where lions always win and sheep always loose.

You can't cry, you cant smile, and can barely survive.

It feels like there is iron box, attached to :
...and someone is using Taser gun on both of your legs.

But there is a Good reason why we must stay positive.We need to fight against this selfish behaviors in everyday life, so that one day the revolution will began!

Stay Positive
And may the Force Be with You!

Wednesday, 22 October 2014

Women VS Men

Men are more like:
- logical thinking
- asperger like
- close minded
- money and security oriented
Women are like:
- can't you see??
- this is obviously an affair??
- how can you not see that!
- intuitive , emotional, see the future. sorcerer like creatures...

Feminist women will be moaning... 

Male chauvinists also..


All in all out, duck like life it is. 
Who is there to decide.?
When will we be ready to open our minds.?

My answer is:

We are equal. As  long as we treat others like  we treat ourselves .

*Please feel free to comment if you have something to say :)

Saturday, 1 June 2013

Lucid Dream

A lucid dream is any dream in which you are aware that you're dreaming.
But is being aware, all there is about lucidity of ones dream?

We spend around 6-8 hours a day sleeping. About half of that time is dreaming and there's only 2 hours of most vivid stage of dream.

There are many questions about the evolutionary reasons for dreaming.
Perhaps it has something to do with memory . Something like disk de-fragmentation on your computer.

But what about Lucid dream? Does it have evolutionary reason? or is it just the side effect of human brain progress.

This is very interesting video about LD

Sunday, 19 May 2013

How to get rid of anxiety instantly.

If you suffer from anxiety, you know it's hard to control what you're thinking about all the time.
Social phobia and stress seems impossible to control, but there is a way to win the battle with uncontrollable thoughts .

You can try to battle your anxiety the hard way, which is using your will power.
Using will power is very tiring and never lasts long enough to make any changes in your life.

The best way that works instantly is reprogramming your thinking so that instead of being stressed out of your mind, you feel happy, or at least you don't feel stress...
How to do this?

Imagine that you are in stressful situation, let's say you're at the party and your friend is telling the funny story about you, and everyone is looking at you .
First thing you probably feel is embarrassment, followed by lower self confidence, feeling insecure and general thinking that you're being judged by the others.

Now.. people with anxiety disorder tend to get stressed almost instantly, and it doesn't really matter if there is a huge or small danger of being publicly embarrassed.
''Normal'' people deal with those situation in a different way, but most of the people who suffer from anxiety have really huge self-consciousness which makes it really difficult to deal with social situation, even though they tend to have higher IQ, and better social skills (really!), their emotions do not allow them to use their skills fully.

I've heard many ways how to deal with anxiety, they sometimes work, but not for very long... Here's an example:
  • imagine that people around you are naked
  • think about something else (put yourself in a happy place)
  • try to believe that you're only dreaming

Now the healthy way to deal with anxiety...

  1. (Know that you are a great person)

Having healthy self esteem is one of the most important things in your life, you have to remember that you are equally awesome as everyone else, this helps a lot when dealing with shyness .

  1. (Accept the fact that we are all different)

We all have different minds, habits and preferences. Someone once told me that if We all were the same, the world would be a very boring place...
Being different than others, makes you special!

  1. (Positive Reappraisal)

When the shit happens, that's the time when you have to stay positive.
Giving up, and being depressed will not help you get through hard times.
So every time you catch yourself feeling down, remind yourself of something good, find a positive in the negative. Don't judge yourself... Praise yourself!

  1. (Do not avoid stress, Deal with it!)

Avoiding stressful situations is as hard as dealing with them. The more you practice how not to stay anxious, the easier it gets. Avoidance will not make you a stronger person, and you don't want to wake up at the age of 60 and regret how much you've missed because of your anxiety.

  1. RELAX !

From evolutionary point of view, stress is useless in today’s modern world. It was necessary when we had to escape from wolves and other dangerous animals, but we don't need it now. Once you understand that stress is only a side effect of evolution, you should be able to see things differently.

And one last thing... :)